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INFIDELITY COUNSELING IN AUSTIN, TX
Has your partner had an affair? Have you?
Are you trying to decide whether to stay in your relationship or leave? Are you staying but struggling to trust again?
Infidelity is one of the most devastating things that can happen in a relationship. The discovery of an affair — whether emotional, physical, or sexual — triggers a level of pain that most people aren't prepared for. It's not just about what happened. It's about everything you thought was true suddenly being called into question.
If you're in Austin and looking for an experienced infidelity counselor, I can help.
What Infidelity Counseling Looks Like
Infidelity counseling isn't one thing. It depends entirely on where you are and what you need.
Some clients come to me as a couple, trying to decide whether the relationship is worth saving and, if so, how to begin rebuilding trust. Others come individually — either the betrayed partner trying to process the shock and pain, or the partner who had the affair trying to understand why it happened and how to make things right.
There is no single right answer about whether to stay or go. My job isn't to tell you what to do. It's to help you get clear on what you actually want and what's actually possible, and to give you the tools to move forward either way.
Can a Relationship Survive Infidelity?
Yes — and often it comes out stronger than it was before. That's not wishful thinking. I've worked with couples who were certain their relationship was over and went on to build something genuinely better than what they had before the affair. That doesn't happen automatically or quickly, but it happens more often than most people expect.
What makes the difference is whether both partners are willing to do the work — not just get past the affair, but understand what led to it and what needs to change. That's where counseling comes in.
What If I Just Need to Process This on My Own?
That's completely valid. Not everyone who's been through infidelity wants couples counseling. Many of my Austin clients come to me individually — to process the betrayal, to figure out what they want, to stop the obsessive thinking, to decide whether they can forgive. Individual infidelity counseling is its own thing and it's genuinely useful even if your partner isn't involved.
Why Work With an Experienced Infidelity Counselor?
Infidelity is one of the most emotionally complex things a therapist can work with. It requires someone who has seen it many times, who won't take sides, and who can hold space for two people in tremendous pain simultaneously. I've been doing this for nearly 30 years. I've worked with couples at every stage — from the night of discovery to years later still trying to rebuild.
I'm direct and practical. I won't let sessions become a forum for ongoing punishment or rehashing the same ground indefinitely. The goal is forward movement, even when forward movement is hard.
All sessions are conducted via telehealth, which means you can work with me from anywhere in Texas without leaving your home or office. No commute, no waiting room.
If you're in Austin and ready to talk, I invite you to call me at 512-590-9868. I'm always willing to spend a few minutes on the phone first to see if I'm a good fit for what you're dealing with.
For more information, visit my Infidelity Counseling page. Feel free to contact me with any questions.
